What Are "Silent Appointments"?
- Sam Vailloo
- Nov 20, 2023
- 3 min read
Updated: May 19, 2024
As silent appointments are becoming more and more popular, you may start seeing salons offer them on their service menu. But what exactly is a silent appointment, and how can you book one?

As a service provider, there has always been that pressure or expectation to fill every moment of silence so it isn't "awkward" and your client feels like you are engaging with them. But honestly, it can be exhausting for stylists and clients alike. Truthfully, it was the one aspect of this career that made me nervous. I always knew I was talented at doing hair, and I love talking to people, but I hate forcing conversation that doesn't flow naturally, especially if it seems like the other person isn't that interested in conversing in the first place. Luckily, silent appointments have solved this problem.
A silent appointment is simply a way to politely ask your service provider to not make small talk with you. You will still have the necessary consultation at the beginning, but then once the service begins, we will be quiet for the remaining duration. You can feel free to pop in some earbuds, scroll on your phone, work on your laptop, read a book, or just sit there -- it's really all up to you. It's an amazing option to offer for a few reasons.
For Clients That Get Over-Stimulated
Salons can be a very over-stimulating environment, between the bright lights, music, loud talking, all the smells, etc. For those, like myself, who have sensory sensitivity, it can be very overwhelming and not the most relaxing. Removing talking from the equation can make the appointment a lot more pleasant.
For Introverted Clients
As an introvert myself, I can say from experience that making conversation can be exhausting, and there is nothing worse than getting asked a million questions, especially when your social battery is already drained. After all, going to the salon should be a relaxing experience, it shouldn't feel draining.
For Clients That Need To Get Work Done
Clients that can work remotely but can't take time off of work to go to the salon might want to bring their laptop with them. A silent appointment is perfect during those times, because it allows you to keep your appointment, while also being productive while sitting in the salon chair. A win-win situation!
For Shy Clients
As a shy person, it can be uncomfortable asking someone to stop talking, especially when they are trying so hard to keep the conversation going. That's why requesting a silent appointment makes things so much easier.
For Any Other Reason
Maybe you're normally a very outgoing person who loves to talk, but you're just having a bad week and would rather be pampered in silence. Honestly, you don't need a specific reason! That's the beauty of silent appointments: no explanation required.
Silent Appointments in Wilmington, NC
The next time you book a hair appointment, look at the salon's website and see if they have silent appointments listed with their services. You can also call the salon or reach out to your stylist directly and ask them if they offer silent appointments. If you are looking for a salon that offers silent appointments in Wilmington, look no further! Sam Vay Studios is a private salon suite that offers one-on-one hair appointments, including silent appointments upon request. Text 910-623-0831 to request an appointment or fill out our contact form.
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